Don't agonize, organize ... that's my mantra. Change won't happen unless you work to make it happen! But sometimes even your best efforts don't provide the results you were looking for. Or sometimes a situation is just so completely outrageous that all you can do is say ... YIKES!
I'm too busy celebrating my birthday! The fire marshall has advised that we should not light all the candles ... so let's just cut the cake!! Two pieces for me, please ... and for my good friends, too!